Family of 5-year-old with autism says he was punished for hugging at Tennessee school
One family says their 5-year-old son with autism is being punished for giving his classmate a hug. (Image: Summery Putnam)
CHATTANOOGA, Tenn. (WTVC) — One family says their 5-year-old son with autism is being punished for giving his classmate a hug. East Ridge Elementary leaders say the boy overstepped his boundaries. But, his family says the whole thing is a big misunderstanding.
Nathan is a 5-year-old boy kindergartner at East Ridge Elementary. The principal says the school staff has talked with him several times. His guardian says the school has filed a report with the state.
Summery Putnam, Nathan's guardian, says she received a call from her son's teacher at East Ridge Elementary about three weeks ago.
"I was sick to my stomach," Putnam said. "The teacher called me and she said, 'You need to have a talk with Nathan about boundaries.'"
Putnam says Nathan has autism, which she says can make it difficult for him to understand social cues. "If you don't understand how autism works, you'll think he's acting out or being difficult," Putnam said. "But, that's not the situation." Putnam says the teacher said Nathan was overstepping boundaries. She says the teacher accused her son of sexual activities after she was told he hugged a child and kissed another child on the cheek.
Debi Amick, Nathan's grandmother, posted in a private Facebook post:
"What do you do when a 5 year child is being labeled a sexual predator and accused of sexual harassment by the school system? It was disclosed that it will go in his record for the rest of his life that he is a sex offender. This child is austic, he comprehends and functions very different than your typical 5 year. What do you do? Who do you turn to for help when the school will not even listen to the child’s doctor when he explains the child’s difficulties in his comprehension of simple things such as boundaries. If anyone can offer advice or help please do. Please feel free to comment or pm me"
Amick says, "He shouldn't be treated like this. The kid doesn't even understand what sex is."
Tim Hensley, a spokesperson for the Hamilton County Department of Education, released this statement:
"School personnel are required to concerns regarding children to the Department of Child Services (DCS). It's up to DCS to determine if those reports are acted on by DCS and what form those actions may take. "
The family thinks the school is in the wrong.
"He doesn't know what he's doing wrong," Putnam said.
Putnam says her son has now switched classrooms and teachers. He is enrolled in special education services.
NewsChannel 9 asked the school system if the teacher filed a report with DCS. A spokesperson said the source of those complaints is confidential. We also reached out to the DCS to get clarification on this. We have not heard back.
